Well, that’s really difficult to say. Why? Because everyone thinks himself/herself perfect and faultless. As to our satisfaction, we human beings try to give all the credit for success to ourselves and blame others for the failure.
We want to feel ourselves as the best personality among others, but it’s not always true. In my case, as a child, I used to receive a lot of appreciation and praise from elders. I was brought up by parents who tried to develop all the good qualities in me as a child. I was a very idealistic child. As an adult, when I tried to cope with the world without any parental/elderly support, I experienced a lot of difficulties. There is very little space for the real idealistic person in the world.
People found me impractical, saintly with excessively morality to the extent to unfit in the society . People tried to put me down in many ways. They found fault in my work and tried to demean me whenever they got the chance. It was difficult to cope. I used to argue to prove myself right, but there were people who were not ready to accept, though deep down in their minds they knew I was right.
With time, I have learnt how to be firm and confident while putting my points in front of others. I’ve stopped wasting energy in arguments. Though I am still idealistic, but with time, I have learnt how to be idealistic and practical together. I can say now I am a practical idealist.
In a society where there is too much struggle, too much violence, and pressure on each of us, it’s difficult to survive without love, humbleness, and kindness. These social norms build an aura around you that makes people start loving you. Stop being irritating and forcing your ideals on others, just live it. Your morals and idealistic nature should reflect from your deeds. Your face should speak without words about how calm and satisfied you are with the truth. People are definitely going to follow you and respect you.
LOVE, HUMBLENESS, AND HUMANITY is the only right path. I have maintained it through out in my life. This gives me a lot of satisfaction that I never lost it even in the difficult times of my life. That’s the favorite thing I found in myself.
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